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ISSN
1943-8133
Volume 2010-07, Issue 2
July 27, 2010
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Welcome to the latest
issue of the Legacy
Journal!
We’re on a mission to inspire
the development of great
legacies in the world, one person at a time. Your interest, help and
feedback are
appreciated! There’s more on our
blog and in the LJ
Archive
— we'd love to have you visit and add your
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Greetings!
In this issue we explore
the amazing power of the heart to move the world. Clearly a
healthy heart is important to our own well-being. But that
amazing organ has its own intelligence — one that may be more important
that all other forms of "smarts."
Have you ever thought, 'what can I do, I'm
just one tiny person in a great big universe'? Maybe you consider
you're not smart enough or educated enough or some other kind of
'enough' to make a big difference? We've all felt that way at
times. What we know from our legacy development research is that
even small ideas — begun with the power of heart-felt inspiration or
drive — can, like a small pebble dropped in a pond, ripple out into
giant waves of great work. Taking one step, and then putting one
foot in front of another, can become an amazing journey of a thousand
miles ...
Maybe all it takes is a focus on what and
who you love and care about, and ideas you may develop from there that
can promote, preserve, protect or otherwise benefit them. If you
take a moment everyday to just focus on your beating heart, and listen,
and maybe journal your thoughts, you might be amazed by what moves you
and the ideas you generate. And that focus is good for you — probably
better than all the striving for so many other things that may bring
momentary pleasure but little long term satisfaction.
What we want for you is for you to feel that
true sense of deep satisfaction and joy in your life and through your
relationships and productive activities in the world. What could
be better?
All the best! Enjoy these articles
designed to enrich your heart.
Cheers, Dolly
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“As
you continue to send out love, the energy returns to you in a
regenerating spiral...
As love accumulates, it keeps your system in balance and harmony.
Love is the tool, and more love is the end product.”
~ Sara
Paddison
“It is better in prayer to have a
heart without words
than words without a heart.”
~
Mahatma Gandhi
“The
heart is the chief feature of a functioning mind.”
~ Frank
Lloyd Wright
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TAKE HEART!
Legacy
projects allow you to aspire to be the best leader you can be,
operating from
the highest plane of your own personal integrity — to be the
“you” with whom you’d
truly want to work and live. What
sort of intelligence supports that
result?
IQ
And Beyond ...
Work
to answer that question began in the
1970’s
& 80’s, and much has been written about it since. Initial
studies followed the highest IQ (intellectual
quotient, or intellectual intelligence) students through college and
beyond,
under the theory that they would be the most successful.
Some
became the leaders and professionals; some became dropouts. What made the difference? What was actually
the predictor of high performance?
Early
pioneers developing these ideas included Howard Gardner who published
his
research on “multiple intelligences” in 1985 in the
book Frames of Mind. He
argued that the human system has many more
types of independent intelligences than mere intellect. Here
is a list of examples, where are you the
strongest?
- Verbal/Linguistic
intelligence
("word smart")
- Logical/Mathematical
intelligence
("number/reasoning smart")
- Spatial
intelligence ("picture
smart")
- Body/Kinesthetic
intelligence
("body smart")
- Musical/Rhythmic
intelligence
("music smart")
- Naturalist
intelligence
("nature smart")
- Financial
intelligence (“money
smart”)
- Interpersonal
intelligence
("people smart")
- Intrapersonal
intelligence
("self smart")
This
was followed by the work of Daniel Goleman, who published his research
in the
book Emotional Intelligence.
So
as between IQ and EQ, which was the predictor of high performance?
Turning
conventional thinking upside down, the
research concluded that success in life is based more on our
ability to
manage our emotions than on our
intellectual capacity. EQ is “characterized
by the ability to manage self and emotions (personal
skills); and the
ability to develop high quality relationships between self and others (interpersonal
skills). That is, IQ may get you
hired, but EQ gets you promoted. In
the studies, the individuals with a higher
EQ were more effective and successful. And
the good news about EQ is that, unlike IQ, it can be developed and
increased
throughout life.
In his book, The Eighth Habit:
From Effectiveness to Greatness,
Stephen Covey focuses on four important areas of
intelligence. Mental Intelligence (IQ) is our ability to
analyze, reason, think abstractly and comprehend — driving
our vision. Physical intelligence (PQ) is what our body does
without conscious effort, coordinating the billions of cells that run
our body with incredibly complex precision — driving our
discipline. He describes Emotional Intelligence (EQ) as self-knowledge,
self-awareness, social sensitivity, empathy and ability to communicate
successfully with others, including a sense of timing and
appropriateness, and having the courage to acknowledge weaknesses and
express and respect differences — driving our passion.
Finally, he discusses Spiritual Intelligence (SQ), which is our human
drive for meaning and connection with the infinite, and our longing and
capacity for meaning, vision and value. It allows us to dream and to
strive. He believes that the highest manifestation of our SQ lies
within our conscience, driving vision, discipline and passion, to
change the world for good. (To illustrate, Covey notes that
Adolph Hitler had well-developed IQ, PQ and EQ, but had no SQ or
conscience. So much for his form of leadership.)
Beyond
EQ to HQ
The Institute
of HeartMath
is
pursuing the developing
science of Heart Intelligence through studies confirming the existence
of HQ, and
development of practices that allow us to access it — simply by
focusing
on the beating
heart within our chests.
This
emerging science of Heart Intelligence mirrors what is known about the
developmental physiology of the heart. The
heart starts beating in the fetus before
the brain has formed. What
triggers
the beating is still unknown, but it develops autorhythmically from
within the
heart itself. As
the brain then develops,
it grows from the bottom up:from
the
most primitive portion of the brain (the brainstem), then the emotional
centers, then the thinking centers and cortex.The
thinking brain literally grows out of the emotional brain. And contrary
to popular beliefs about
the brain as the master or governing organ in human beings, there is
strong
evidence that the heart “thinks” independently of
the brain and is not
controlled by it.
Might
be useful to learn to really listen to your heart, eh?
The
heart has its own independent nervous system, including at least 40
thousand
nerve cells (as many as in various subcortical brain centers). In
a heart transplant, the nerves that run from the brain to the heart
through the
spinal column are severed, and surgeons do not know how to reconnect
them. When
the beat is restored to a transplanted
heart, it keeps beating without any nervous connection to the brain.
The
heart actually communicates with the brain and the rest of the body in
four
ways:(1)
neurologically — through the
transmission of nerve impulses, (2) biochemically — through
hormones and
neurotransmitters, (3) biophysically — through pressure waves
of the heartbeat
and pulse and (4) energetically — through electromagnetic
field
interactions. It is
this fourth way that
is most recently is being demonstrated through growing scientific
evidence. This
electromagnetic field not only permeates
every cell in the body, but also radiates outside of us; it can be
measured up
to 10 feet away from us with sensitive magnetometers.
Why is any of this important? Tapping
into the power of your own heart may
be the ultimate in development and expression of EQ — the
strongest predictor
of high performance, but also of happiness and satisfaction.
The
Personal
Impact of Positive Emotions
Studies in HQ show us that the
effect of positive emotions
— happiness, love, caring, appreciation, compassion
— have been shown to reduce
stress and increase immune system protection. Using
simple heart focused practices can produce a tangible reduction in rapid
heart rate, sleeplessness, fatigue, tension, indigestion, and body
aches. One
corporate study even showed
reduction of blood pressure in hypertensive individuals to normal
levels in six
months, without medication!
Clearly
“coming from the heart” benefits us — and
it can have a strong impact on others
for the greater good. That
is
exemplified through the concept known as
“entrainment,” the power of the heart
to synchronize the rest of our body.
The
concept of entrainment is not new. It
was first discovered in the 17th
century with the invention of the
pendulum clock. One
night, when inventor
Christiaan Huygens went to bed, he realized the pendulums in his
collection of
clocks were all swinging in unison. He
knew from winding them that morning they had not started out that way. Later
scientists solved the mystery by
showing that the largest pendulum, the one with the strongest rhythm,
pulled
all the others into sync with it — the phenomenon called
entrainment.
The
Power of Entraining Others with Our Positive Emotions
Similarly,
the heart is the strongest biological oscillator in the human system,
and it can
pull the rest of the body’s systems into harmony with it
— we can literally
come into greater sync with ourselves,
simply by sustaining
sincere, heart-focused states such as love and
appreciation. By
intentionally altering your
emotional states you can attune your head and heart together, allowing
you to
function at out optimal capacity. With
the heart’s entrainment capacity and transmission through the
electromagnetic
field, that heart-focused state can also support more effective
interactions
with others. Imagine
the influence of
this capacity!
So
take heart! While
the ideas and actions
involved in legacy development may seem mind-boggling, keep it simple
and focus
on what your heart communicates to you. That
is the best place to plant the seed of your own personal legacy,
from which amazing things can grow for your benefit, and that of the
rest of
the world.
If
you want to know more about the tangible steps involved
in legacy development, check out our new website and programs at Creating Legacy
Network.
(DMG)
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A Heart-Full Portrait of Belonging
Babies and children
are proudly photographed from birth. Fathers and mothers, grandparents,
aunts and uncles along with eager friends have cameras at hand to
capture every precious smile or childhood expression on fresh young
faces. In this digital age, images are quickly, if not instantly,
transmitted to the world. Treasured, irreplaceable moments are
documented and shared.
But, what if you grew up in foster care, longing year after year to be
adopted by a family and there was no one there to take your picture as
a newborn, a toddler, a child ready to start school? What if the years
passed with you remaining in foster care because no one could really
see you? What if all you had to represent you, your sweet spirit
longing for a family of your own, was a black and white institutional
snapshot that didn’t truly illuminate your vibrant personality?
Social services agencies had to use whatever images of the children
they could get, and most were as inspiring as a driver’s license
photo ... or a mug shot.
Similar thoughts ran through the creative mind of Santa Fe photographer
and adoptive mother
Cathy Maier Callanan when she first encountered the foster
care system where she met Diane Granito a new adoption coordinator for
the state. That encounter, and what they realized
together, turned into an amazing legacy project. Their idea was to
professionally photograph these older children waiting for adoption in
a way that truly captured their essence, depth and individuality, and
not just their image.
On March 29, 2001, at
Callahan’s suggestion, the New Mexico
Children, Youth and Families Department (CYFD) brought the
expression "a picture is worth a thousand words" to life at the
nation’s first exhibit of these photographs. Callanan
proposed a unique way to help children in foster care find adoptive
families. Children are paired with renowned photographers to create
beautiful professional portraits, and the photographs are exhibited
with the hope that it will touch others and inspire them to adopt a
child.
The first exhibit and reception at Santa Fe’s Gerald Peters
Gallery drew a crowd of people inspired by stirring portraits of
children in CYFD custody who were dreaming of finding their "forever
families." The portraits were created and donated by some of the
region’s most talented photographers. Callanan’s idea and
talent was initially paired with a state agency responsible for
administering the foster program. According to Diane Granito of
CYFD, that's how "The Heart Gallery of New Mexico," an innovative CYFD
program was dubbed and born.
More than 1,200 people attended the inaugural event, Randy Travis
serenaded the crowd, and connections were made that night leading to
the adoption of six Heart Gallery children. They all knew they were on
to something special, though what was to come has exceeded many
people’s wildest dreams.
Thanks to media coverage and technical support from CYFD, the Heart
Gallery spread to several other states. In January 2005, a Parade magazine article about
the project by Santa Fe reporter Rosemary Zibart touched and captured
the hearts of millions of readers. Later coverage included People, the
Today Show, CNN, MSNBC, USA Weekend, the New York Times, ABC World News
Tonight and 20/20.
That resulted in thousands of e-mails from photographers, social
workers, gallery owners, photo printers and adoption professionals;
from parents, grandparents, college students and teens; from those
who’d been adopted themselves and those interested in adopting.
Some came from people who simply loved children. All wanted to get
involved in their own communities. The widening ripple effect was a
virtual explosion of Heart Gallery groups across America.
Since then, the annual
Heart Gallery of New Mexico exhibition has found homes for many
children who were considered "hard to place" due to their age or the
fact that they were members of a sibling group. One of the happiest
endings came in June 2005, when a very special portrait inspired one
couple to adopt five teenage siblings. Two photographers even "clicked
with" and adopted their charming subjects.
Today, there are Heart Galleries in 45 states and the number of Heart
Gallery-inspired placements is growing in the thousands. CYFD continues
to be the conduit for the positive energy of these dedicated planners.
The federal Children’s Bureau’s adoption initiative "The
Collaboration to Adopt US Kids," has been a strong supporter of the
project, and has named the Heart Gallery a "best practice." On November
1, 2005, they hosted the first National Heart Gallery exhibit at Union
Station in Washington, D.C. CYFD is played an integral role in this
milestone event. Visit adoptuskids.org for more information on
The Heart Gallery as a national movement.
The mission of Heart Gallery of America® Inc. is to
facilitate and utilize the power of photography to capture the
individuality and dignity of children living in foster care, in order
to advocate for their permanency, raise public awareness about their
needs, and obtain support to help meet those needs. An integral part of
honoring this mission is to provide assistance and resources to Heart
Gallery chapters nationwide to help them achieve parallel goals for the
waiting children they represent." As a result, interested individuals
and families can begin a search for children awaiting adoption in the
United States through their online gallery.
Some interesting statistics from Heart Gallery of America’s site:
- There are nearly 500,000 children in
foster care in the United States.
- Over 250,000 will never return home.
- Over 123,000 need adoptive homes right
now.
- More than 29,000 aged out of foster care
in 2008, at age 18 without anyone, to live on their own, unprepared and
unsupported.
This extraordinary legacy project all
started with a simple inspired idea. Little did Cathy Maier
Callanan or Diane Granito know how big this vision would grow, how many
people would be inspired to participate and how many precious children
would find their forever families. Statistics reveal there is room for
other innovative ideas and legacy projects to address this need — and turn a problem into a resource in the form of empowered young
people, a positive difference that could indeed last for generations.
What is your heart calling you to do in the world? How can we
help you develop it?
(EBC)
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Send
us an e-mail about someone you
know who is living or building a legacy. We’d love to feature
their story. Maybe it’s you?!
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SOME
SUMMER LEGACY READING ...
The Why of
Work: How Great Leaders Build Abundant Organizations That
Win
by Dave and Wendy Ulrich
Is it time to move from "productivity" to "meaning"
in your work? Dave Ulrich, a man widely considered to be the
champion for the continuing evolution as HR as a strategic force within
organizations. In their new book, Dave and his wife, noted
psychologist Dr. Wendy Ulrich, write about 8 big questions to ask
yourself as you move towards abundance. They expand this and grapple
with an critical question for us all: how do we create meaning in our
work for ourselves and for those around us? Learn more here.
168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think
by Laura Vanderkam
If we re-examine our weekly allotment of 168
hours, we’ll find that, with a little reorganization and
prioritizing, we can dedicate more time to the things we want to do
without having to make sacrifices. Laura Vanderkam draws on her
own experience and the stories of other successful people who have
fulfilled their goals by allocating their time according to these
principles. It is a fun, inspiring, and practical guide that will help
men and women of any age, lifestyle, or career get the most out of the
time and their lives. Learn
more here.
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MIGHT YOUR LEGACY
BE IN THE FORM OF A BOOK?
Our
amazing colleagues Lynne Klippel and Christine Kloser are at it again — with a not-to-miss-event
that will take only your time to derive great benefit!
Successful Author
Secrets — a global virtual
event- is perfect for anyone who even thinks they may want to write a
book. During the month of August, Lynne and Christine are
interviewing 21 best selling authors who will be sharing the truth
about what it really takes to succeed as an author.
The lineup of speakers is a who’s who of the best and
brightest in the non-fiction book world!
If you want to be among them, do not miss this amazing virtual event.
Click here to check it out!
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CREATING
LEGACY STUDIO
Every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month at 10a PT / 1p ET, join
us online at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/legacy!
Call in during the live showat (347) 850-1633 — or from the
web page, click on the green Chat Now! button to ask questions
or make comments.
- TheStudio
isyour opportunity to explore the concepts of legacy in your
own life, work or business. We focus on how to take practical action
toget a full life and fulfilling work, give your best gifts
— and make a significant positive difference in an enduring
way that brings you great joy.
(Come on, you know you want to change the world ...)
- If
you miss the live show, you can listen to the recording on the
Creating Legacy Studio page on BTR.
Download past shows in mp3 format for listening in your
preferred player.
- See
more info about the Studio on the Creating Legacy Network website,
where we post the updated schedule and call in information.
- Tune
in, turn on and take part!

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KIDS NATURALLY
'GET' LEGACY - AND GIVE WHAT THEY CAN
We
love it when the legacy mentality begins early in life!
Last
but by no means least, here's a story from inside our Creating Legacy
family that we are so pleased to share. Our great executive assistant
Kate Kelly has an amazing head of red hair which she once grew for 4
years so she could donate it to Locks
of Love. Well,
Kate has five daughters, four who also have amazing heads of red
hair and one cute little blondie. Her loving demonstration of that contribution
— the stuff from which personal legacies are born — was not lost on two
of the
girls, Caehlin and Annaliese. They recently followed suit.
 We're
happy to share their beaming before and after pictures (together with
the stylists who helped make it happen), memorializing their own
contributions.
Congratulations Caehlin
and Annaliese! We applaud you
for helping to make a positive difference in the lives of others. You
never know the ripple effect your gifts may have. We do hope
you know in your hearts that whatever it is, it will be significant and add to
the loving life energy on this planet!
Because
your gifts will do that, no doubt, for a number of people. And that
is very
important!
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Dolly
M. Garlo, RN, JD, PCC, Editor
of the Legacy Journal is the Founder & Creative Partner of
Creating Legacy™ — a program devoted to empowering
business owners and entrepreneurially minded professionals make their
positive impact in the world — with joy and
meaning.For 30 + years she has supported clients in
many different arenas — healthcare, law and business. Her
current focus is helping clients with business and strategic marketing
design, social enterprise development, professional career transition,
and leadership for enlightened business owners and social
entrepreneurs.
Eliza
Crouch,
RPT, PA-C, CPCC, is Creating Legacy’s Development Partner, a
life coach and community developer with a background in physical
therapy, primary care, surgery and rehabilitation medicine. After 25
years of
experience developing client-focused, team medicine models to deliver
healthcare services, she began using coaching skills and models to
enhance and improve client-family-healthcare provider interaction. She
now works with teens, young adults, physicians, emerging and
established leaders in diverse professions and organizations, with a
strong interest in enhancing intergenerational collaboration.
Is it time for you to design your work and create an exceptional life
so both reflect your personal integrity and values, greatest level of
wellness, highest and best contribution, and individual sense of
abundance — for which you can feel exceedingly fulfilled
and grateful? We believe these are the keys to true, lasting
satisfaction and happiness from which you can also "make a positive
difference that lasts for generations."
And we look forward to getting to know you.
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